Is it good to win every argument? Or, is it good at times to let the other person win the argument and keep a friend?
There are some arguments where I will not give in, like: the sun doesn’t exist, every religion is good, there is no God, God created hell. On these kind of arguments I cannot give in. I can give up if the person is not reasonable but I will not give in.
I am having an argument on Mylot (a place for discussions on the internet) on homosexuality. I’m sure it is a mental defect and it isnot normal because it is unnatural. I will not compromise there. That doesn’t mean that I will disrespect a person because they are homosexual, but I cannot approve or condone that kind of lifestyle. If something is wrong then I can’t say it’s right. Wrong is wrong and right is right!
However there are areas that
Let’s say one of my friends or relatives tells me that I don’t spend enough time with them. Here, I do not say but I was there just last week, what are you talking about? Here, it is better to say, here I would rather say that they are right and ask them if I could visit this week, sometimes, and mention a specific day.
Some arguments should be won if we are sure we are right and some arguments it would be better to allow the other person to win. They are happy and since we love them then we will be happy too!