A defeatist is sure to lose as he has already given up. With that attitude, how can he muster the enthusiasm, drive and energy to ever win?
A defeatist looks for excuses as to why he can’t achieve a desirable objective. It’s not his fault, he was born that way, nobody gives him a break, and all is against him. His poor, negative attitude and his own self-imposed limitations become barriers that are insurmountable. The picture of failure that he paints in his mind is what will become a reality since his thoughts influence his actions and he gets just whathe expects.
He is happy in his failures because he expects to fail. And so he leads a life of unhappiness in his self-created misery. He makes little effort and gets little result.
Are you happy where you are or do you aspire to reach greater levels?
Then, start looking around and find material to build a ladder out of the hole of self-defeat. It may take some time but if you
How can we become more optimistic? Is it possible to develop a more optimistic disposition? Can we become more optimistic? How can we do that?
Make a conscious effort to look for positive angles to any event or occurrence. A hurdle is put there for you to jump over, to make you exert yourself and to eventually to make you stronger for the next hurdle.
Be optimistic. See every hurdle as a challenge to your ingenuity and as an exercise to stretch your capacities.
So, refuse to accept defeatism. Let every fiber of your make-up embrace optimism. What are the benefits of being more optimistic? You will accomplish more and that will bring you a greater measure of satisfaction and happiness.